Speaking Of Porn

Well, all right… thinking about it then, which I was… Look! This is a bit personal and maybe even revealing about me, but it’s just between us few and we’re all friends here, right? And I’m a guy, right? Right? OK then… back to my favourite subject – sex!

Anywaaaaaay, I was thinking about porn and that was after glancing through some very explicit pictures that someone had sent me. They were, incidentally, all just of women – very naked and very much on their own – not couples and so on, which don’t greatly appeal to me anyway. In fact, some would probably call it nude art and there was certainly an element of that – it undoubtedly involved some superb photography. However, it was all part of a bit of a joke, (and very funny too, but not one to be aired here, I hasten to add). Oh and, before anyone calls me a liar, yes, I was only glancing through them (mostly fairly uninterestedly as it happens too) and not drooling, as I’m sure some will immediately assume – not that I regard my interest in the female form as being anything but natural, or in any way anything to be embarrassed about.

So, anyways, I digress, I was looking at these photos and it occurred to me that I may be… well, unusual (I prefer to stop short of admitting to peculiar). The reason that thought crossed my mind is that, although the photos were mostly of classically beautiful young women and many were extremely intimate and explicit (and I do mean explicit with close-ups and all), there was only one picture out of a whole bunch that was even remotely “wow!” to me and I tried to figure out why…

I just know this is going to sound daft, not to say weird, to a lot of guys, but the reason was simple – it was in the eyes. Yeah, I know all the old jokes about not looking at the mantelshelf while you’re poking the fire, but that for me, was a fact!

Sure, I can look at the rear view of a woman and say “Nice ass!” – if I know her well and we’re friends I might even say it out loud, but just in a photo of a stranger it’s rare for me to find anything really exciting about a picture that doesn’t include the eyes. Yet it’s not even solely the eyes – it’s the look in the eyes and even the woman’s whole expression.

So, there you have it… What? Oh, the one that turned me on… Well, it was certainly, as I’ve said, explicit, but this young woman wasn’t exactly classically beautiful, yet she was to me absolutely gorgeous and her whole expression was… natural, I guess. She was uninhibited, which I like – totally confident in her nudity – but not trying to be especially sexy and yet her expression and her eyes – oh, those eyes – somehow said, “Come on, honey. Let’s just go to bed, shall we?”

Yeah, right! I wish!

It does, though, support what I’ve always believed – that sexual chemistry is the most important element in sexual attraction and the most highly erogenous zone for all of us is the mind…

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5 Responses to “Speaking Of Porn”

  1. It’s between the ears….yup.

    • Yeah well, I never pick the easy route to anything… asses and eyes turn me on – generally BOTH together!

      Ho, hum… life’s a bitch, eh? 😉

  2. I don’t think you’re unusual at all! I think most women would agree that while men may lust over the various girlie bits and bobs here and there, when they’re really seriously wanting you it’s your retinas they’re burning holes through.

    • Hi and thanks for commenting. Well, I agree with you entirely when someone wants YOU – the whole package – and it’s great sex – the best! But I’m not so sure that a lot of guys would be the same if they just want IT – if you get the distinction. Then again, I guess women feel like that some of the time too. I suppose it’s all down to mood in the end. 😉

  3. girl du jour Says:

    I think sexual attraction is involuntary. You don’t pick who you are attracted to, it just happens. Chemistry is key.

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